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GIVE HER A VIBRATOR

Remember, one of the most powerful ways to help your woman enjoy anal sex is to distract her at critical moments. You need to help her relax her sphincter and abdominal muscles, to accept rather than resist your entry, and to concentrate on the potential pleasure rather than the potential pain. There are many ways to distract your partner, limited only by your imagination; but one of the better ways, if your partner is at all the adventourous type (willing to take charge of her own pleasure), is to give her a vibrator and tell her to use it on her clitoris while you are entering her ass.

Admittedly, this is somewhat an advanced technique, because it assumes that you and your partner are sophisticated and experienced enough not to freak out at the thought of using a sex toy like a vibrator.

With a large percentage of women, the best approach is just to tell them to use the vibrator; because of cultural conditioning, many, and perhaps all women still find it hard to be actively participating in creating their own sexual pleasure. You can make it easier for a woman with this type of personal hesitation by taking the dominant role, in effect ordering her to use the vibrator, and thus freeing her from the inner stigma of using a mechanical sex toy on herself. As always, you will have to think about the personality and preferences of your partner, and decide for yourself how to bring up the subject of using a vibrator.

Incidentally, it would be wisest to try using the vibrator for vaginal sex a few times before trying it for anal sex. It is definitely not something to suggest or try during first time anal sex; love, patience, firmness, and good lubricant are the critical success factors in that situation!

Remember, this is an advanced technique.