Anal Sex Secret: Use Your Fingers Lovingly on Her Asshole.

Guys, the key to your girl's asshole is your finger. Warm her up by stroking the cleft of her buttocks, brushing the crinkled, ultrasensitive skin surrounding her anus. Once she has accepted you near her asshole make light exploratory probes into the puckered hole of the anus itself. Touch it dry carefully at first, then wet your finger with a little spit or lubricant. (spit is perfect for this stage in my opinion, and if you have health concerns about saliva to anus contact then maybe you shouldn't be fucking this girl at all in the first place, eh?)